- People just care about you, and don't want to get hurt. They tell you to mind your own action, because not everyone is good... But it doesn't mean everyone is bad also. Just do whatever you think that's good for you. As long as you enjoy it, as long as it doesn't harm you, so why not? They just afraid that the worst thing will happen to you, even though it doesn't mean it will always happen.
- Everyone you meet has a right to be known by your side. It's like when you are becoming a friend with someone. Others can tell him/her about the bad side of you, it's their choice to listen or not. But you have a right to be known as yourself, from what your action towards them. That's what my friend told me, and I really like this one. Everyone needs to be known as him/herself, no matter where s/he comes from, no matter where s/he has the socialization.
- As long as you know what you are feeling, and doing, everything is fine. What confuses you is the opinions. Just don't make it, instantly, to be your action towards someone. Filter it.
I will never be able to tell you not to, when it comes to feeling because you won't listen. So just do whatever makes you happy, you don't need to be confused because until now you still understand what you feel. What you feel is still crystal clear, so for now, no need to worry.